My letter is below. The contact information is:
Brian Carrr
brian@brian.carr.name
Vancouver, WA
You are welcome to omit the contact information if that would put me
over 250 words (and hence potentially exclude the letter). My count
was 249 so I am pretty close... Also, the first two words are just my
thoughts for a heading, but you should feel free to use whatever you
think appropriate (it is just a thought).
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Event Blackballing?
I would like to solicit members' opinions of an AMC rule which allows
the event coordinator of any Mensa sponsored event (local or national)
to insist that a member leave the event without any justification or
rationale being necessary.
I myself understand the need for such a rule, but was shocked when it
was applied to me. An event I regularly attended at a local restaurant
did not have any event coordinator so the LocSec (Portland, OR) made a
special trip there (he rarely attends that event) and insisted that I
leave. When I asked why I had to leave, he said that no reason needed
to be given, but that it was because some of the members present were
not comfortable with my presence there.
By way of a background, my wife and I are both members of Mensa and are
in the midst of an adversarial divorce. While I am a long term member
of Mensa, I am relatively new to the area and there is the possiblity
that my wife has made some misleading or even false claims concerning
me. However, in a 'no justification' environment it is hard to refute
unstated conclusions.
My concern about this policy is that I imagine that there are at least a
few black members of Mensa who aren't very comfortable being around
whites as well as some Arabs who aren't completely comfortable with
Jews, Southerners with Yankees, etc.. Shouldn't there be some review
policy for such exclusions?